"Thank you. I do feel relaxed." Giggle.
"You're welcome. I know you needed that."
"Why do you care if I have an orgasm?"
"Do so few men care?"
"No, they don't."
"That's so sad. They have no idea what they're missing."
"But why do you care about me?"
"Because I do care about you, long term. You're very stressed out, and I can help. As a friend. I learned that in my marriage, I appreciate all you've done for me, and to me haha, and I want to return the favors."
Smile! "We can work on that... babysteps...."